Positivity

Yesterday was the first time in forever that instead of screaming and fighting we actually talked out our problems. And it was nice. And I have a more positive attitude. My husband is my husband and no matter what others plans are about that changing it isn't going to change. I know that women have devious minds when they are going threw breakups or separations. They don't care if a man is married or not they will flirt and try their best to get his attention. Especially if the woman was someone romantic in some way with the man. But after talking it out yesterday after a weekend of feeling sorry for myself and extremely unattractive. I am now thinking different. I have had 3 kids in 5 years and I look good. I lost all of the baby weight from all of them. I now weigh what I did when we got married. My boobs dont sag to bad. They are actually perky from where I am breast feeding. I could use toning but I'm not going to stress it. I look at myself and see the good things. How many women can say that after 3 kids? I stay mostly on top of the house work. I keep my kids happy and healthy. So I think I am doing very good :) Yes I just gave myself praise which I never do. Now to move on forward to a better future with my 3 wonderful babies and amazing husband.